I called my mom, and for the first time, I admitted how overwhelmed and isolated I felt. While my oncologist mentioned some side effects, no one fully prepared me for what menopause at such a young age would entail.
“If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?”
At the age of 43, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was an emotional mess but the one constant thing that helped me survive was running.
There is space for those who want children, those who want children and can’t have them, and those who unequivocally know that parenthood isn’t for them. What about those of us who are right in the middle?
I put out an APB for my Sexy, unsure if it could actually be brought back but I was willing to do the work to get it back.
Recognizing that I never used to set healthy boundaries – What does that look like to engage in that process in an act of self-preservation, self-care and compassion towards self? How do I unlearn this old programming where I thought to put me first was a sign of selfishness? Forreal, to put me first has been a struggle!
It isn’t easy to begin again, because after treatment, that’s what it feels like; like starting over. But I found something that not only eases my emotional pain and anxiety, but that of others as well. And for that, I am thankful.
From restoring libido to regaining sensation in your breasts, Dr. Don answers all your questions about cancer and sexual health.
I’m here to tell you after two years of black, rigid, broken and weak nails, I think I’ve found the secret!
No one prepares you for a broken vag when you’re 40 and diagnosed with breast cancer.
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