Personal Experience
Growing up in Haiti, I learned to value holistic health and natural remedies, focusing on nutrition, herbal medicine, and mental wellness. This upbringing taught me the importance of treating the root causes of health issues, not just the symptoms. While I respect these traditional practices, I also see the value in integrating scientific medicine for a comprehensive approach to health. My father, a medical doctor, showed me the importance of combining traditional knowledge with modern medical insights.
When I found a lump in my breast, I knew I had to act quickly. My diagnosis of triple-negative breast cancer was a shock, but my cultural beliefs and heritage guided my response. In Haitian culture, mindset and community support are paramount. These beliefs reinforced my determination to confront the diagnosis head-on, seeking immediate medical intervention while relying on my family’s and community’s support. The resilience and strength of the Haitian people inspired me to face this challenge with unwavering resolve and courage.
My diagnosis at 36 surprised my family and community, given my overall good health. Their initial shock quickly turned into overwhelming support, for which I am endlessly grateful. Being vocal about my diagnosis revealed that others in my community had faced similar battles but kept them private. In the Haitian community, health issues are often not openly discussed, a practice that needs to change. Open conversations about health are crucial, especially within the Black community, where healthcare disparities are significant. By fostering open dialogue, we can enhance awareness, support, and early intervention.
The Importance of Self-Advocacy
Caribbean-American women must advocate for their health needs because they are their strongest advocates. Speaking up ensures that their unique health concerns are addressed, culturally appropriate care is provided, and systemic biases are challenged. Self-advocacy empowers us to demand the quality care we deserve.
Navigating my breast cancer care was relatively smooth, as I did not face significant cultural or language barriers. Moving to the United States in middle school helped me assimilate into American culture, easing my interactions with healthcare providers.
Strength and Support
My Haitian heritage endowed me with strength and resilience, crucial in my breast cancer journey. The unwavering support from my strong family network provided me with the courage and determination to overcome the challenges of my diagnosis and treatment. I encourage other Caribbean-American women facing breast cancer to actively seek support, whether through family, friends, community, or support groups like FTBOU. It’s essential not to isolate yourself. Sharing experiences and feelings with others can provide the emotional and practical support needed during this challenging time.
Celebrating Heritage
Organizations like For the Breast of Us (FTBOU) play a vital role in supporting and empowering Caribbean-American women. By highlighting and celebrating diversity through interviews and personal stories, FTBOU provides a platform for our voices to be heard. Additionally, offering culturally relevant resources, creating support groups tailored to our specific needs, and partnering with Caribbean-American community leaders can foster a sense of support and empowerment.
In sharing my story, I hope to inspire and support other Caribbean-American women on their breast cancer journeys. Remember, you are not alone, and life goes on. Let us embrace our heritage and strength, advocate for ourselves, and support one another through this challenging time.
