In 2014, at the age of 36, I felt I was thriving in life.
I had a great career in teaching.
I was living on my own in an area that always had something going on.
I had great friends and family to spend time with.
I was in great shape.
Everything was going well in my life and then BAM! Outta nowhere, after a doctor’s visit and a mammogram, I get hit with the most devastating news in my life — I have stage IIB breast cancer.
The news was like a punch in the gut and I immediately thought I was going to die. Thoughts of “how can I have cancer?” and “I’m too young to have cancer” kept running through my mind.
I mean, I want to get married and have a family someday and you’re telling me I have a disease that could possibly kill me? I just knew my days were numbered.
I immediately began having tests ran and treatment started shortly after. Three months of chemo, followed by surgery and three months of radiation.
Treatment seemed like an eternity.
As I was going through treatment, I was determined to have the mindset that I am going to beat this. I knew that half my battle was having a positive attitude even on those days I felt like crap.
I drew strength from my faith in God, my family, friends, colleagues and sorority sisters. With their love and support, I was able to finish treatment and beat cancer!
Now that cancer is behind me, there are many lessons I learned as I went through this journey.
One lesson I learned was to love those that showed love and support to you. During my journey, I lost some friends and family members. Although it was a hurtful feeling, the love and support I received from others made everything ok.
Another lesson I learned is to never let your faith waiver. There were times when I felt angry with God because I had cancer. I often times felt scared and fear was trying to set in. I knew it was no one but the enemy trying to defeat me. I fought back by staying in God’s word and speaking life and healing over myself.
The most important lesson I felt I learned through this journey was to live life to the fullest. You can be healthy one day and the next you can get sick and your life changes forever.
I know tomorrow is not promised, so I make it my business to live each day like it’s my last. I try not to sweat the small stuff and not worry about things that I cannot change or have any control over.
Today, I am so blessed to reach a big milestone in this journey.
I celebrate FIVE years in remission!
Each day is treated like a gift from God because so many have succumbed to the disease. Every year that I am cancer free lifts a load off my shoulders. To reach this milestone, I felt a great sense of accomplishment.
It’s given me the confidence and strength to push forward to reach the next milestone and to continue to live life to the fullest cancer free!